Choices to Make

I grew up in what I often describe to friends as a “no whining” household. My parents made it very clear in a variety of ways that we were responsible for our responses to what life threw our way. A complaint of “that’s not fair”, usually elicited a response of “Who told you life was…

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Our Freedoms

Let’s consider the lowly preposition. It’s defined as a word that governs and expresses a relationship between a noun or pronoun and another element in the clause (New Oxford American Dictionary). We learn about them somewhere along the way as part of grammar though I think I began to pay attention to them when trying…

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A Break for Spring

I saw these few bluebonnets on my walk in the neighborhood last week. And two days later saw my first redbud tree in bloom. These are harbingers of spring in my part of Texas. Then a cold front blew through and the early morning temperature was in the thirties, and the forecast calls for highs in…

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Women’s History

Early in the spring semester of 1983, a faculty member from the McMurry College History department came by my office. Fane Downs was in the middle of her second career at the time. She had been a “professional” Girl Scout serving in roles as District Director and Camp Director in West Texas. Then she went…

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Insatiable Curiosity

I picked the topic because I saw many new professionals become frustrated by their inability to get things done, to change policy or to understand decisions being made by people who were more senior or had more authority in the organization. To be fair, all of us who work in large organizations experience all of…

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What Is a Bureaucracy?

 “Why do I have to take this course? I’ll never use it in the real world.” Ah, the common lament of the student. While most often heard in high school, I’ve heard various versions throughout college and into graduate school. What I’ve learned since I finished going to school is that we can never know…

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Courage Is…

Over the past few years, I’ve seen a number of writers share the etymology of the word courage. There are enough that I can’t share appropriate credit beyond saying I didn’t figure this out on my own. I was taught this. But it has resonated with me each time I read it and I want…

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History and Values

A Bit of History Here at the start of Black History Month, I realized something a bit embarrassing. I have no idea about the history of the month itself. I asked at the San Marcos Library if they had a flyer about it. They don’t. They try to be paperless. The helpful reference librarian said…

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True Leadership

For me, it’s definitional. Bullies are not leaders. That may have titles and positions of authority but that doesn’t make them leaders. Both titles and positions may give them power to abuse but that is not leadership. It’s merely coercion and abuse. I’ve taught classes and workshops on leadership for years. I’ve held leadership positions…

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MLK Day Reflections

Monday, Peter and I joined a couple hundred people from the San Marcos area at the LBJ MLK Crossroads Memorial for the start of the annual MLK walk. According to the city website, this is the only place in the United States that streets honoring these two leaders of the Civil Rights movement form an intersection.…

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